I took almost a year long (maybe longer) to decide to tell a girl how I felt about her. And all I got was her ignoring me the past month or so. This despite us being friends and talk almost everyday before.
I feel slighted. Insulted maybe? Maybe it doesn’t pay to take friendships and relationships seriously.
I also can’t help but to take my female friends less seriously now. I understand a little why male chauvanism exist now. Females want to hop around and look for the best partner and will drop you as quickly as they find the next better option. Men shouldn’t clamour to girl. It’s too expensive an exercise - it requires you to put time, money and a shitload of emotions.
Men should just compete with other men to be the most desirable partner so that you gets first dibs when the girls clamour over.